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Should I get accessed?

Whatif2043

Hello,

I am 27 years old.  I was diagnosed with ADHD and Dishgraphia when I was 6.  I took medication for ADHD until I was 16. I stopped because my mom let me decide and I wanted to be "normal" and felt like I could deal with it on my own.  I recently started medication again.

Things have improved but not all the way.  I focus better at work.  I am able to keep from being as distracted at home. But I still struggle.  Especially socially.  My relationship with my husband included.

Through a research deep dive into ADHD comorbidities I ended up looking at adult diagnosed autism.  I connected with much of it. I researched more and connected more and more with what I'm reading.  And things about autistic experience from childhood make me think of some things from my childhood.  But there is so much that overlaps with adhd.  I took every assessment I could find as honestly as I could and every one of them resulted in the likely to have symptoms category, but how valid that is with an ADHD diagnosis.

So, I'm considering getting accessed by a professional, but I am afraid.  I'm worried about the cost.  I'm afraid of asking my doctor for a referral and her telling me I'm a hypochondriac or that I'm dumb and wrong or something.  I'm afraid of telling anyone I know that I'm thinking about it bc I am afraid it will make them think badly of me or that I'm being dramatic or want attention.  And what if I am diagnosed?  I don't know what benefit that would have.  Just knowing?  Im not sure I would tell my employer so I don't think it would help with work and I don't know if people close to me would be supportive or if they would even believe it.

I've retyped this message like 10 times because I don't know the right way to ask and I don't want to be offensive on accident or accidentally tell you my whole life story.  So please let me know if I've said anything wrong and sorry for the super long post.

I guess what I'm looking for is maybe some advise.  How useful has a diagnosis been for you?  Is it worth it?

Thank you for reading and having this space for questions and help and even if I don't specifically have autism I want to say hello to all my nuerodivergent fellow humans and thank you again.