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Hi there, 

Just like between 16% and 22% of autistic adults I'm long term unemployed. I'm on universal credit and have to go into the job centre once every two weeks to prove I'm looking for work etc. I live rent free with my mum but she is past retirement age and still working full time because she simply cannot afford to retire or even reduce her hours with me still living at home.

I can't understand what the other people who fall into this category live on? There's obviously a vast number of perfectly capable autistic adults who are also out of work long term. Are they all on universal credit too? We all know that's not enough to live on. Is there anyone else in a similar situation? 

I can't spend the rest of my life going into the job centre every couple of weeks to report that once again I've had no luck getting a job. It's costing the tax payer, it's driving my mum into the ground, and I'm severely depressed because of it. 

I've heard of people getting a late diagnosis (in their twenties) and all of a sudden they were housed and had benefits thrown at them. I just can't understand why there are some people who are given housing etc and others who are given nothing at all. Of course I understand there are people on the more severe end of the spectrum who require assisted living. 

I have absolutely no one to ask about these things as since my diagnosis, like most others, there's been radio silence. Absolutely nothing at all from anyone. I thought a diagnosis would mean access to more support but it's left me even more lost and confused than before!

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  • I am one of those diagnosed in the 20s and. Yes I am currently on universal credit & was given support to move out of an extremely toxic environment home environment where I was living in a damp and cold static caravan. using near to all my universal credit at the time paying for both my working parents, My sister, her daughter and partners electric usage, internet and water, council tax and coal to keep the house warm even though I could use the living room in the house. The only access I had in the house was to the kitchen and bathroom. I was also contributing the last of my income to family shop which only p[provided me few hot meals a week and breakfast. the rest of the week I would have to survive on just plain pasta. 

    I had to move because my family where making me ill & kept sabotaging me into working in environments that near crippled me. It took until age 24 to get the support and i am grateful. I do have to admit It, I have got it easy at the moment because my universal credit is paying my rent and is giving me enough to pay bills and support myself. I know i am extremely lucky to have four hours of support a week to help me with deal with doctors and access the community (Like clubs and Gym) . I am also lucky that i had the support and encouragement because my support worker got me into college to study my GCSE in English and Maths which is free to all adults if they do not possess a C or equivalent which will hopefully let me access the access to technology course next year.

    The support is out their but you have to put the effort into arranging it. For me it started with a needs assessment which was i had to call up and arrange with the help of the safeguarding lead at my local job centre.  

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  • I am one of those diagnosed in the 20s and. Yes I am currently on universal credit & was given support to move out of an extremely toxic environment home environment where I was living in a damp and cold static caravan. using near to all my universal credit at the time paying for both my working parents, My sister, her daughter and partners electric usage, internet and water, council tax and coal to keep the house warm even though I could use the living room in the house. The only access I had in the house was to the kitchen and bathroom. I was also contributing the last of my income to family shop which only p[provided me few hot meals a week and breakfast. the rest of the week I would have to survive on just plain pasta. 

    I had to move because my family where making me ill & kept sabotaging me into working in environments that near crippled me. It took until age 24 to get the support and i am grateful. I do have to admit It, I have got it easy at the moment because my universal credit is paying my rent and is giving me enough to pay bills and support myself. I know i am extremely lucky to have four hours of support a week to help me with deal with doctors and access the community (Like clubs and Gym) . I am also lucky that i had the support and encouragement because my support worker got me into college to study my GCSE in English and Maths which is free to all adults if they do not possess a C or equivalent which will hopefully let me access the access to technology course next year.

    The support is out their but you have to put the effort into arranging it. For me it started with a needs assessment which was i had to call up and arrange with the help of the safeguarding lead at my local job centre.  

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  • in reply to Blue

    I'm so glad things eventually worked out for you Moon. I'm in a similar situation to yourself. But it didn't come easily. I had to jump through many hoops, and provide a lot of factual evidence to support my claims. That's how it should be. I'm not complaining about that. I've been paying into the system for thirty years, and so I have no shame or guilt in receiving welfare payments that have been legally awarded to me after many and rigorous assessments.