Offensive book found for sale

There are children with more severe forms of autism, and parents can be overwhelmed by it, and I can understand that. But what I can't understand is this "struggling" parent HAD THE TIME TO WRITE AN ENTIRE BOOK complaining and ranting about his own life, rather than take that same amount of time to support and actually care about his own son.  

From what I could read from the book (I read it to give the book a fair chance, despite the title), is that he sees his son as a bother, as  something that he has to deal with, as not "perfect." The book is all about "I, I, I, me, me, me, my, my, my" and the focus is all on himself and complaining about his son, rather than caring about his son. He can't see things from his son's perspective. He's selfish and narcissistic. And you know what, by him having the guts to publish something like this, and putting THAT kind of title, and actually charging money for it, is completely narcissistic!

On his son's 2nd birthday, his father spent loads of money, bought tons of stuff for this big yard party, invited 50 people, and instead of having an ego boost as some great father at a great party, the opposite happened, and his son cried (because he was swarmed by 50 strangers out of the blue, so who wouldn't cry), and the father was more concerned about his own retutation being ruined and being looked down upon by others, than he was about his own son. 

I mean, he willingly spent all this money on a freaking party, but he didn't like spending money on trying to find support for his own son's autism. And when his second child was born, his daughter, he was trying to check if she had any problems (like autism), and then thanked god that she was born "perfect." That's really low. And he empathised with the parents who considered suicide, and wanting to taking their autistic child down with them. That's wrong.  

And when his son had an allergic reaction, he described dragging his swollen and puffy son home, as if he was putting down his son as some kind of loser in life. That his son had another problem on top of what he already had. And his father was bothered by the notion that because his son took the allergy medication and napped during the day, it will make him stay up all night. I mean allergies can be lethal, and yet the father cared more about his son being awake at night bothering him, than he did about his son's well-being.

And how the father wrote that it's the "fight against autism" rather than "support for autism." Like come on, that kid needs a real father, not some father who puts more time and effort into writing a book with a terrible title, than he does about supporting his son. If I were to write a book, it'll be about how this father is worse than cancer.

I had hoped it was from the perspective of an overwhelmed parent that was struggling to do their best. Now sickened that it was written by someone undeserving to call themselves a parent.

Yeah me too. I mean I don't expect all parents to be positive all the time, but I think that even if his son had cancer, that this father wouldn't have taken care of his son any better. I just hope this father matures enough to realize that his son is worth infinitely more than whatever he bought for his yard.   

I think I heard of a term before, that all children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children. 

I think that for some parents, or even some people in general, is that they want what they don't have, and they are so focused on what they don't have, that they miss out on what they do have.

Like you had the potential for fun, but your dad missed out on that, because he was so focused on the things that you couldn't do, rather than support what you could do. No child wants to experience their parent's frustration and disappointment, but equally, the parent could have reacted and handled things better. I mean they're the adult with the matured brain, so they could have figured something out.

I think that for some parents, or even some people in general, is that they want what they don't have, and they are so focused on what they don't have, that they miss out on what they do have.

Like you had the potential for fun, but your dad missed out on that, because he was so focused on the things that you couldn't do, rather than support what you could do. No child wants to experience their parent's frustration and disappointment, but equally, the parent could have reacted and handled things better. I mean they're the adult with the matured brain, so they could have figured something out.