Rejection

There's a chap called Erwin McManus https://twitter.com/erwinmcmanus you might find helpful? How we were designed to function in our youth is not something we can regret but have sorrow for. Erwin once mentioned something about this in that Regret is identifying something you were aware of and should or shouldn't have engaged in which you now wish otherwise.

Kids can be resilient - it's typically parents who break us, while peers we can let go of. And this is exactly how the world works: by paying things forward. I now use this understanding to be compassionate toward certain behaviours. There are ways to word things which might appeal to a bully. Sometimes not when they are unrelentingly indulgent in the chemical rush their love of power is possessing them with. Everyone has an addiction to something. 

There's a chap called Erwin McManus https://twitter.com/erwinmcmanus you might find helpful? How we were designed to function in our youth is not something we can regret but have sorrow for. Erwin once mentioned something about this in that Regret is identifying something you were aware of and should or shouldn't have engaged in which you now wish otherwise.

Kids can be resilient - it's typically parents who break us, while peers we can let go of. And this is exactly how the world works: by paying things forward. I now use this understanding to be compassionate toward certain behaviours. There are ways to word things which might appeal to a bully. Sometimes not when they are unrelentingly indulgent in the chemical rush their love of power is possessing them with. Everyone has an addiction to something. 

Parents, especially in Ireland, live their lives through their kids. Thus, kids are never allowed to be full Adults.

"When I was a child; I thought like a child, I acted like a child, I reasoned like a child! When I became a man I had to leave childish things behind." (1Corinthians 13:11)