how to have a conversation?

Hi, I feel a bit stupid writing this. I really struggle with conversations and I know that a lot of autistic people struggle with conversations but I was wondering if anyone had developed any strategies for having conversations? How can I have a long conversation? My conversations last about 2 minutes and then I run out of things to say. I would really like some advice.

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aidie over 4 years ago

I am pretty much the same. I tend to keep asking questions based from the information just received.
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piggy1401 over 4 years ago in reply to aidie

i have tried that but people say i sound like i am quizzing them.
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aidie over 4 years ago in reply to piggy1401

yes sometimes i am like a journalist ---- the other thing is to create space for the other person to speak so dont be afraid of gaps. Also learn how to do reflective listening and talking.

there are free on-line courses

heres just one link their are many others

https://lifevise.com/active-listening/

i was taught and tested i could do it by a bot !
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aidie over 4 years ago in reply to piggy1401

np
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piggy1401 over 4 years ago in reply to aidie

i am going to do the online course, thank you so much!
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piggy1401 over 4 years ago in reply to aidie

i am going to do the online course, thank you so much!
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aidie over 4 years ago in reply to piggy1401

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