Autistic Female needing advice

Hi everyone!

I'm waiting on my diagnosis but have a looooong list as to why I think I'm on the spectrum, sometimes you just know?

I need advice for a counsellor. I'm 27 and living with my diagnosed autistic husband and life is HARD. I really struggle to cope with myself and him as he can't cope with his own. 

Does anyone have any advice for seeing a counsellor? or where I can get some support? Advice?

Thanks in advance!