Autism and formal speech

I have been told that I am quite pedantic and I speak formally a lot of the time. I think there are 4 main reasons for this:

  • Detail focused processing style- it is really important for me to be precise with what I say to avoid misunderstandings 
  • Large vocabulary 
  • Provides structure for interaction 
  • Love of language 

What do you think? Do you speak formally?

I am just interested in other people’s opinions and whether formality is important to you.

Parents
  • Yes, most of the time. My parents get crazy on me for it sometimes. I tend to say stuff in a way more complexed way than most people would, usually with a lot of extra information, like exceptions from what I'm talking about, to be sure no one makes assumptions before I've siad everything, but in combination with that I speak too fast when I'm stressed, which I often am when I have to explain something like that, usually means that they (and sometimes even me) don't understand what I'm talking about. Sweat smile

    I usually find it a lot harder to understand what people want if they "speak in slang", or with a too non-formal language. They also leave out too much information that I could find highly useful.

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  • Yes, most of the time. My parents get crazy on me for it sometimes. I tend to say stuff in a way more complexed way than most people would, usually with a lot of extra information, like exceptions from what I'm talking about, to be sure no one makes assumptions before I've siad everything, but in combination with that I speak too fast when I'm stressed, which I often am when I have to explain something like that, usually means that they (and sometimes even me) don't understand what I'm talking about. Sweat smile

    I usually find it a lot harder to understand what people want if they "speak in slang", or with a too non-formal language. They also leave out too much information that I could find highly useful.

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