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Anyone else with Autism, ADHD or both gotten into full time employment & got their life together at age 25 ?

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Anyone else with Autism, ADHD or both gotten into full time employment & got their life together at age 25 ? I've had enough of these fake organisation that keep failing me or forcing me into work in some really unsuitable work environments or with extremely shady employers. So far I've done so much work experience, leisure & online learning and nothing has given me a little bit of direction. I wanted to go back to college but they do not do digital infrastructure or digital development for those over the age of 23. 

I've tried an apprenticeship which ended early because of the training provider or school going bankrupt, it wasn't something I was interested in anyway but i was willing to give it a chance and complete them, they where in horticulture and retail. Looking back they where probably a waste of time as because they where in dead end entry level subjects. 

I just want some direction or at least a fresh start in a job in a clean, well ventilated environment with routine hours but i keep being harassed into livestock, meat processing and elderly care assistant roles and the only reason i didn't stay at these jobs is because harassment and bullying by the staff was ruthless and became violently physical and dangerous.          

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  • I'm an old fart so things were different back in the stone age.    I was working Saturdays and holidays from 14 in the local Wimpy Bar and paying my way.  I grew up on a council estate so there was zero spare money - my parents couldn't afford for me to do uni on their dime.   

    I was into electronics and good at it so I applied to a big electronics company and got on their apprenticeship program where, in connection with the local uni, they would pay all my educational expenses while i worked and earned money - win-win - but funding was only forthcoming on successful completion of every stage - huge pressure.

    I was really hard - lots of studying around all the work but I succeeded and got qualified so stayed on a bit longer while sorting my life out working for the company in Europe managing contractors installing advanced satellite ground stations for ESA.

    I got fed up with all the travelling and living out of a suitcase so changed to a higher-paying job in another company managing the production of scientific instruments - and then used the extra money to get on the housing market - and was married the year after - I'd just turned 24.    I'd known my wife since 11 and we'd been going out since we were 16.  

    I'm still friendly with a couple of workmates from my apprenticeship (I go flying with them) and the old training manager who gave me my break - I owe him everything for his faith in my capabilities.    I'm also still friends with the European CEO of my last company.

    I've gone on to do unbelievable things since as a chartered engineer and I retired a few years ago before 50.   

    I made in into my 40s before I was diagnosed as Aspie.

  • in reply to Plastic

    Thanks for passing on your wisdom again but all the apprentices that are accessible to me are in jobs that really shouldn't be allowed to be apprenticeships like retail apprentice at Poundland or apprentice in livestock which are basically entry level dead end job with no way of progressing. I have worked in all of them and done work experience.       

  • in reply to Blue

    I think a lot depends on where you are - I'm in a really high-cost area - there are no 'little' businesses because costs of being here are so high so there are more opportunities with proper companies - they all have a staff turnover so are more willing to offer jobs as assistants or temporary helpers - it's all good experience and, if you shine, it's good for your CV.

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  • in reply to Blue

    I think a lot depends on where you are - I'm in a really high-cost area - there are no 'little' businesses because costs of being here are so high so there are more opportunities with proper companies - they all have a staff turnover so are more willing to offer jobs as assistants or temporary helpers - it's all good experience and, if you shine, it's good for your CV.

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