Routines can anyone relate or am I just weird lol!

From what I have been reading dyspraxic and autistic people can have repeated or unusual routines.  I have a few.  I get up every morning at 8.25 not 8.30 or 8.00 but 8.25. Yes 8.25?? and stick to it? Every day except Wednesday I brush my teeth in the morning and evening but Wednesday I brush in the morning but not in the evening. I have a break and do not brush my teeth. I stick to Wednesday evening.  I asked myself why I do this and an image of a rectilinear grid came into my mind with boxes to represent time spots for morning afternoon and evening. the Wednesday evening box felt more free which gives me a break from teeth cleaning.  
On Monday and Wednesday afternoon I eat biscuits, always the same biscuits and always five.  For years I made exactly the same sandwiches for lunch. Bread with tahini and banana never changing.  With my tahini sandwich lunch I ate a scone every other day. Eat one miss one and stuck to the pattern for a long time.   Eventually I had a scone every day.  Once they sold out of scones at the shop I got them from. I replaced a scone with tea biscuits exactly four each time.  When my scones came back I checked the dimensions of the scone by laying four biscuits by its side to check I had been as close as possible to the dimensions of the scone. As well there was a brand of savoury biscuit I stuck to and would go out of town on the bus to get that one brand. It wasn’t tasty I just liked it. I can get a bit nervous if the packaging for the same product changes.
I go to Cafes several time a week.  For ages the same cafe three times a week at the same time and day and I would always stay one and a half hours. This is even if I am free all day.  I like the same seat sometimes a bit bothered if I don’t get it.  I like the same seat with pubs. 
As well I can get just a little bit nervous if my pen is not the same weight.  Or am I just weird lolBangbang 
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  • Not weird at all. I have similar routines. I have the same thing for breakfast every morning, I can go for weeks having the same meal for dinner too. I have to wash up, dry up and wipe down in exactly the right order (glasses first, then cups, then bowls, then plates, then cutlery, then pans. They all have to be pre-swilled. Washed spoons go in the left cutlery drainer, forks in the middle and knives in the right one. They can't be mixed up! It drives my partner mad! Lol! I'm the same with ironing, there's a correct (to me) order and they have to be done in that order. I'm  puzzler, I love doing word and number puzzles, but I have to do them in a particular order too. I have lots of little routines that I just can't change. I used to think I was strange until I was diagnosed, then it all made sense. Now I embrace my strangeness! Lol!

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  • Not weird at all. I have similar routines. I have the same thing for breakfast every morning, I can go for weeks having the same meal for dinner too. I have to wash up, dry up and wipe down in exactly the right order (glasses first, then cups, then bowls, then plates, then cutlery, then pans. They all have to be pre-swilled. Washed spoons go in the left cutlery drainer, forks in the middle and knives in the right one. They can't be mixed up! It drives my partner mad! Lol! I'm the same with ironing, there's a correct (to me) order and they have to be done in that order. I'm  puzzler, I love doing word and number puzzles, but I have to do them in a particular order too. I have lots of little routines that I just can't change. I used to think I was strange until I was diagnosed, then it all made sense. Now I embrace my strangeness! Lol!

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