hello!
I would like some advice from some autistic people.
I'm 21 and I have been considering learning to drive but I am anxious about pretty much every part of driving.
If you are autistic and can drive could you tell me about your experiences?
hello!
I would like some advice from some autistic people.
I'm 21 and I have been considering learning to drive but I am anxious about pretty much every part of driving.
If you are autistic and can drive could you tell me about your experiences?
It is funny that I've just had a notification about this thread as I'm currently having a meltdown about parking. My workplace is having some construction work done in the carpark that I usually park in and I'm no longer able to park in it due to not having a staff permit.
I did apply for a staff permit to be able to hopefully use my blue badge as a disabled staff member, but I had problems with nobody being able to tell me where I could park even when I had it and it a meltdown I cancelled it. I waited about a month to get it.
The building works are going to last until next summer so there isn't even a way of just tolerating it short term. I feel like a pathetic weirdo for even finding this such a problem. Using public transport may be an option but it will significantly increase my commute time, and I'm really not great in the mornings to begin with and I have children that I take to the childminder before I make my way to work.
I just needed to get this off my chest. Not expecting a solution to be offered.
I borrowed a 900 for one ride, and it damn near killed me then later bought an IMMACULATE restored Cb750 of the same model and sold it after a month (for a profit) because it felt "not right" in the handling department.
Think I went to a 400/4 after that, which of course WAS right in the handling department.
Now I ride an ex-racer FZ750, which sticks to the road like, well, you know what sticks to a blanket & provides (apparently) substantially superior performance to a police motorcycle. (I didn't actually know it was a police bike, until the road conditions changed which required me to slow down, when he caught up with me for a roadside chat, apparently after chasing me for a couple of miles)
I've had to take a few years off from the biking recently, due to skintness but I'm just fettling and servicing it, ready to return to the road ASAP, as I have a requirement to travel somewhere regularly where the access isn't wide enough for a car...
Driving and having my own car has meant everything to me. It has been my way to escape people and places at my own time. It has been worth the challenges and costs. It's my bubble where I can shout and scream, or just sit in silence while parked and the outside noises are hushed.
Absolutely what it is for me, having a car has saved my life on several occasions, I have stayed out in the woods in mine overnight because I couldn't bear to be in the house any longer.
knowing where you should be sat on the road at roundabouts etc
Hello Plastic, exactly! The instructor should have explained all that to them first before even navigating a roundbout on a vehicle they were learning to drive too, bad instructor.
Also, taking my driving instructors instructions literally almost caused an accident.
This happened to my friend when they were doing thier CBT for a motorcycle, the instructor was behind them giving instructions through the earpiece, when they approached a roundabout the instructor told my friend to drive straight over at the the roundabout so they did, they drove over the roundabout, not around it, the instructor was going crazy apparently, while my friend was totally confused and rightly so with an instruction like that, I think I would have done exactly the same.
This put them off driving a motorcycle, but they found a great instructor to learn to drive a car and got through their test first time.
Its all down to the instructors how well you do, fortunately I had a fantastic instructor who took things a step at a time, spoke calmly and what really helped me massively was that he explained the reason for absolutely every move we made, when I'm given instructions I need to understand the 'why's', which he always explained.
Having an ASD I feel makes me an excellent driver as I notice absolutely everything that goes on in my environment so I'm always aware of what other drivers are doing, the negative is that it can get exhausting.