Apparently I cannot possibly have Autism because...

Hi everyone!

My partner recently pointed out to me that I show a lot of autistic traits so I've been doing a lot of reading about the signs and symptoms and it really does sound like me. I've read so many stories and forums and it all sounds very familiar and I really feel like I can relate. I actually started to feel a bit better and like I understood myself more. I wasn't just "weird" but there could be an actual diagnosis and lots of other people out there like me! However, I wasn't happy to just self-diagnose so I booked a doctor's appointment to request a referral to a specialist... but according to this person there is no chance that I have Autism. 

Apparently someone with Autism:

- Would not be able to graduate from university

- Would not be able to have a job

- Would have speech delays and not be able to talk like a regular person

- Would not be able to be in a relationship

- Would need to live with parents or require a social worker to cope

Apparently, most of what is on the internet is wrong and I'm just seeing these autistic traits because I read about it...

I don't want to start listing all my traits in this post, whether or not I have ASD is a separate topic. I definitely don't think I explained myself well during the phone call (anxiety, brain fog, confusing questions), but I also feel like he just ignored a lot of what I said. Has anyone else had a similar interaction with their GP? I am a little surprised that a doctor could be so narrow-minded and dismissive.  

I don't know where to go from here. I feel really disheartened. 

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  • What a load of Rubbish !!!!! maybe someone with low functioning Autism BUT not high functioning Autism like Aspergers..

    Apparently someone with Autism:

    - Would not be able to graduate from university - I got a Masters and my Autistic son has a 1st from Durham !!

    - Would not be able to have a job - been in the same job for over 32 years 

    - Would have speech delays and not be able to talk like a regular person - depends usually give my life story to a complete stranger

    - Would not be able to be in a relationship - been married twice - OK first one lasted 2 years but current one going 25 years and counting..

    - Would need to live with parents or require a social worker to cope - not true but might need a councellor to help coping with life's stresses !!

    I all else fails get a private diagnosis - you don't need to be referred by a GP !!

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  • What a load of Rubbish !!!!! maybe someone with low functioning Autism BUT not high functioning Autism like Aspergers..

    Apparently someone with Autism:

    - Would not be able to graduate from university - I got a Masters and my Autistic son has a 1st from Durham !!

    - Would not be able to have a job - been in the same job for over 32 years 

    - Would have speech delays and not be able to talk like a regular person - depends usually give my life story to a complete stranger

    - Would not be able to be in a relationship - been married twice - OK first one lasted 2 years but current one going 25 years and counting..

    - Would need to live with parents or require a social worker to cope - not true but might need a councellor to help coping with life's stresses !!

    I all else fails get a private diagnosis - you don't need to be referred by a GP !!

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