Family tips

Hello,

Does anyone have any help or tips for a father who has Aspergers and a son who has autism? 
Things are mostly okay in the family but when my son is being more autistic and my husband is being very Aspergers they just annoy each other. They don’t hit each other or anything like that so no safeguarding issues but they can’t be in the same room. 
Is there anything I can do to maybe educate my husband on how autism works or bonding excerses..not really sure but as I’m the negotiator I am running out of ideas.

they are both high functioning! Send help lol