Assessment dilemma!?

Hello everybody.

I’m going to an autism assessment with my ‘’like a daughter’’. I’ve been ‘’like her step mum’’ since she was 8yrs old.

I’m diagnosed autistic, and this would support her being so too, if we were genetically related.

But as we are not, I’m worried they will think the coincidence makes it less likely, that the way I am has influenced her and me knowing about autism will make them suspicious that I know what to say.

It’s so important that she is assessed for herself and I do not affect this. I’m the only one who can go with her. I’m hoping the coincidence is not a factor.

Should I say about my autism?

What do you think?

What would you do?

I'd really appreciate any thoughts, please.

Parents Reply
  • I would defer to the  judgement of others as I honestly don't have any experience that could help you in that respect. What Aidie has said makes sense. At the end of the day, it's her assessment. They will probably only be asking questions that relate to her behaviours and how she's navigated her way through life rather than your autism. It doesn't make sense that you need to bring it up other than to demonstrate why your knowledgeable on the subject.

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