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Relationship adivce to meeting new poeple in person

RhysF00

I feel like i my mind and myself are kinda misreading people and i had a situation at costa last year where i wanted to try and well get to know someone alot better as she seemed very ncie but i dodn't want to do it at same time. I feel i am ready to start proper dating. howerver i dont want to ruin anything and having autisim really pits people off i think.

The costa worker was called person A. really kind, sweet and friendly. good looks ngl but i never managed to get into a propere convo nor even asked anything. i think she left costa tbh as not seen her there so far. I went in yesterday and saw a costa worker called Person B. got into a convo with her with my mate enjoyed it. but i instantly felt i want to actually propely sit down and talk with her you know. but unsure about it.

I have copied that from a post i made somewhere else befor i found this fourm. 

Edit: didn't fully read the rules to start with. Person A was a person from last year person B is recent person

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  • Hi

    I've mentioned this many times before on here - 1 to 1 dating is incredibly hard - so many ways to screw up with someone you don't actually know yet.

    You're better off looking at all your childhood hobbies and things you enjoyed doing and then finding the grown-up version of it - all the people there will be on your wavelength and it will be easier to make friends - no ice to break!

    From there, you're more likely to meet a wider circle where there could be someone special for you.  Smiley

  • in reply to Plastic

    the sims relationship sort of thing right? 
    thing i got is reall 3 main mates. my best friend and her BF then my other best friend. well these are actually my proper friends. helped me when i needed them and never ignored me when my mental health was low. 
    i enjoy building models a a kid and still do. i also enjoy tanks which i still do. i also enjoy roleplay which i do online. i think i gonna find that hard tbh finding grown up versions. 

  • in reply to RhysF00

    There's loads of options with models - RC clubs, engineering clubs, train clubs, Lego clubs - and are you talking about RC tanks?    The 1/16 Heng Long type?    There's a whole thing about those - they set up military modelling get-togethers where the ones with rescue tanks recover others from puddles (lakes) or rough terrain.      There's also the 1/14th off-road truck guys and there's always Airfix / plasitc models (IPMS) or even RC boats & cars

    I've just built a squadron of 12 aircraft to keep me busy for a few months.     I'm just about to start the old 1970s Airfix HMS Victory and a Trumpeter 1/35 Challenger II MBT.

    Toleplay - are you kidding - there's live D&D groups, TORM historic re-enactment faires and there's all sorts of comic-Cons etc.

    What's your thing?

  • in reply to RhysF00

    I don't know if you've ever noticed that people into models, plane museums, history, technology, RC stuff, computers etc. etc. are almost always on the spectrum - they are all enjoying their childhood hobbies as grown-ups  Smiley  

    Their families are all used to dealing with ASD people. Smiley

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