Connecting with autistic people who feel positive about their identity.

Hello

I was diagnosed late, age 32 (now 33) and it has been... interesting. 

I am trying to feel more positive about my identity and focus on my strengths. I would like to build for myself, a community of others who have similar experiences, because I feel isolated (particularly during lockdown) and defective, very often. I think I have to do some work to put down internalised ableism and masking and pick up who I really am. Its a bit disheartening to only hear fear and worry when I look online for support. 

Are you an autistic adult who has come to terms with their identity and feels positive and strong sometimes? Would you be interested in chatting? Perhaps sending some emails? Or whatever you’re comfortable with - this is my first post, if DM’s are a feature on this forum, thats cool too. 

:)

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  • I am in social limbo at the moment. I'm 45, currently waiting diagnosis. I don't fit into an NT's world and have recently stepped away from the "friends" group I was caught up in, because I didn't get it! However, because I'm undiagnosed, I feel like a fraud being on here and making comments too.

    on the whole though I'm much more comfortable with the idea of myself as an aspie because I can't tolerate the fakery that NT's exhibit.

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  • I am in social limbo at the moment. I'm 45, currently waiting diagnosis. I don't fit into an NT's world and have recently stepped away from the "friends" group I was caught up in, because I didn't get it! However, because I'm undiagnosed, I feel like a fraud being on here and making comments too.

    on the whole though I'm much more comfortable with the idea of myself as an aspie because I can't tolerate the fakery that NT's exhibit.

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