Autism Therapist Recommendations?

Hi folks,

I wondered if you could recommend any UK autism therapists for adults? Or psychotherapists versed in autism?

I'd like to:

- deal with my getting into relationship problems (misreading and getting overwhelmed)

- exploring shutdowns

- exploring how to dialogue with an another AS who gets trapped in overwhelm and shutdown

- maybe explore the "protective shell" I've stuck up as a defence.

I'm assuming it can be anywhere as we'll use zoom. I only earn £9k, so ideally someone who operates a sliding scale, but I guess lots of autists are low waged so maybe that's not viable. I operate in normal life fine, it's just stuff involving emotions and feelings including work situations that disable me.