Transitioning into adulthood

I'm a 17 year old girl currently doing full-time education in year 13. My plan is to study law at uni and later have a career in law, and I will most likely go to UCL, which I already have an offer from. I was diagnosed with Aspergers at age 8, but I never really recieved much support due to a combination of my issues never really affecting me in an academic context and my parents (especially my mother) instilling a shameful, negative idea of autism that caused me to reject support wherever I could. After I started sixth form I stopped recieving any and all support whatsoever. This has been fine so far, but I'm very worried about starting university. I want to start accessing support for my autism related issues but don't know how. I don't want to go through my parents because they believe that autism is something to hide and cannot be convinced otherwise. I'm also reluctant to go to my school because for one I don't know how to broach the topic, and secondly it means going through the SENCO, who I had to see in year 7-11, and she was frankly dreadful. I desperately do not want autism to ruin my life.

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  • Hello

    I want to offer you my support and vote of confidence. You write with such eloquence and honesty about your experience of ASC. My 17 year old daughter has just been diagnosed with autism, after 4 years in the darkness of not knowing why she was suffering from anxiety, OCD and depression. I am also trying to help her transition into adulthood. 

    What I want to say is that I work in Higher Education and I am so pleased when my students, or potential students, are completely honest with me about any health/education differences or needs that they have. It empowers me to deliver a better education to them and help them access the appropriate support within my institution. Please have the confidence to tell the staff that you are working with this. Do not wait for problems to arise to tell them.

    Good luck. Autism will not ruin your life. You have already managed amazingly with little support, just think what you can achieve with more. Please ask for it.

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