Where are you from ....? I’m from Suffolk, Any adults in their 30s still live with their parents ?

Hey Sally!

I am 29 and live back with my parents. I have lived out of the family home with my ex partner but I just don’t seem to cope very well without my Mum. 

I’m sure it gives him great comfort to have you near - mutually beneficial as you say. One day at a time. Easy to say, less so to do of course, but you’ve got plenty on your plate and should give yourself credit that just functioning in the now is no small thing. 

I'm 41 and live in lancaster with my dad, and functioning as a carer for him as he has alzheimers. 

It's kindof a mutual convenience, because I'm dubious if I could maintain a job with my concentration difficulties and disordered sleep schedule, and he needs looking after. I told myself I'd use this time to get my mental health sorted out, but that's not happened yet. No idea what I'm going to do after. 

I am 44 and although I owned a flat since 2007 ended up living back with my parents for quite a while until last year, after selling at a massive loss. I now have a new house and live 7 minutes by car from my parents. In some ways it was lovely to have that time living with them again, but there is a slight unavoidable dimension of sliding into that adolescence dynamic of the past. Also my biorhythms skew towards the nocturnal which didn’t sync up brilliantly with the ‘lights out’ regime one naturally goes along with as the house guest. Im glad to have my own space again, loner  that I seem to be. 

I'm from Bedfordshire and I live with my parents, who are definitely fine with me living with them at 35.

I honestly don't know what I am going to do when my parents do pass away, but part of me wants to move somewhere like Australia, do a Zoology course and maybe get a job at Australia Zoo, but I highly doubt that is going to ever happen, especially as I a) definitely can't afford it, b) get very nervous when it comes to flying, c) unsure how to deal with things financially....need I go on

I also don't drive, although I am currently trying to revise for my theory test and I am nervous about all the new changes that are happening.

Mweekie xx

I'm from the south coast and live near the sea.

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Oh bless you , I’m so sorry to hear that, re your  grandfather :(  and how is your mother now ?

also you shouldn’t get abuse, that’s not nice, I wonder if there is an admin person that can say something or deal with it for you.

if you phone social services, or your local  customer first, you would definitely qualify for some support.

this year has been a pretty shitty year, 

but when things are that low, and like you not having a job now, I always say, things can only get better.

my thoughts are with you, 

None. And I go onto this message board and have just had constant abuse. My grandfather died of COVID, my mother had a stroke, I've just lost my job and yeah, this lot on here seem like such a lovely bunch....not.

Hello Daz, do you have support?

I'm in Southampton and I do live on my own but I am struggling quite a bit. My mum never thought I would leave to be honest.

I had Avalon for support 

From 2012 to 2015 

Do you know Grassington near Skipton,  I lived there for 3 years 

I'm thirty five and still live at home, I'm from the North East, though, not Norfolk. I did go on a boating holiday with family on the Norfolk Broads though which left me with some very happy memories of the place, I always remember the parrot in a shop in Great Yarmouth :D 

I’m from North Yorkshire. I’m 31 and lived with parents mostly but this year I have moved in my own accommodation. It is difficult sometimes to manage but I am also receiving some support.

yes there are many but I'll let them come forward themselves