I have been in a WhatsApp group for a while now, but never really fitted in. No surprise there! Recently though I have noticed how often I get ignored. There have been a few occasions where meetings have been arranged and I have been unable to go. Usually because of anxiety, so I just make some poor excuses and say I can’t make it, but get absolutely nothing back. Then another guy says he can’t make and 30 seconds later everyone else is messaging saying “oh no, come on sort something out” etc etc.
A similar thing happened this week, so I decided to drop out of the group because I find it too stressful. However, I didn’t realise that WhatsApp messages everyone in the group to say “so and so has left the group” Now I’m getting grief for leaving.
Struggling to know what to do.