Telling family members about diagnosis

Hello, I am a 20 year old female and I have recently been diagnosed with ASD. I have been open with both my parents throughout the diagnostic process and my mum has been really supportive. My dad however has been acting very strangely post-diagnosis and has suggested that I just told my therapist what she wanted to hear and that there is no need to label things. I think that he could be autistic too as he has a lot of the same traits as me and think he could possibly be realising he may have it too. I don't think he has done any research into ASD and he doesn't seem to have much of an interest in it, but this is a really big thing for me and I feel he is really bringing it down because of his strange and quite mean behaviour towards me. This is also making me worry about telling other family members because if this is how my own dad reacts, how will others who maybe don't understand me as well react. 

Does anyone have any advice on telling family members about an autism diagnosis and how to deal with bad reactions to it? 

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  • I just thought of something else that might help you.  This is how it was for my wife and i.  She told me I had Aspergers and I shut her down an said no way.  Then I told her you know what I think I do have Aspergers.  As soon as I did that she shut me down and said no you don't.  This actually did not comfort me, it made me feel alone.  I finally gave up on convincing her and let her come around without my pressure.  It seems like when you pressure someone to agree with you, it will result in resistance.

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  • I just thought of something else that might help you.  This is how it was for my wife and i.  She told me I had Aspergers and I shut her down an said no way.  Then I told her you know what I think I do have Aspergers.  As soon as I did that she shut me down and said no you don't.  This actually did not comfort me, it made me feel alone.  I finally gave up on convincing her and let her come around without my pressure.  It seems like when you pressure someone to agree with you, it will result in resistance.

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