How to help my daughter

Hi all, I am currently starting going through the process of diagnosis for aspergers with my 6 year old daughter.  Her having aspergers would explain a lot but I am struggling with how to react to her when certain things happen.  E.g. what is the best way to make sure she is listening when I tell her to do things.  Ermm basically just looking for some copng mechanisms.  I have been looking back at my childhood and also how I am today and I think I have aspergers too so very confused and worried at the mo.

Thanks 

Sam x