female autism in adults - awareness and misdiagnosis

Hi,

I am new to this forum and fairly new to the autistic community so am going to try and summaries my experience. 

Im 24 and my therapist has referred me for an autism diagnosis (something i definitely have). Ive been passed around mental health services/doctors etc since 15 and been diagnosed with various things such as social anxiety, depression, traits of BPD and OCD. Before my referral I was ready to give up with getting help because therapy etc has never helped me and i started to believe i was just broken. but since reading on female autism it has completely changed my mindset and everything has made sense.

As someone who has lived a fairly "normal" life with a bunch of friends, went through university and had many jobs, this is something that I know will be hard for those who know me to accept or believe. 

The fact it has taken 24 years really frustrates me because I know a lot of my problems could of been answered years ago if id just had a diagnosis. **LONG STORY SHORT** I'm really considering making some sort of fundraiser/website/petition for autism awareness in females. The lack of research, knowledge and help online and from GP's is absolutely terrible and something that frustrates me. Does anyone have any opinions or suggestions on how to do this? or if this already exists?

Im sick of the misdiagnosis and awareness of female autism and i really really want to change that

thanks :) 

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  • Hello

    I am also a female on the autism spectrum. I was diagnosed when I was 23 and was diagnosed with BPD before autism.

    I have also been frustrated by the lack of research and knowledge on female autism and in response have made a start on trying to write a book about a teenage girl with undiagnosed autism using the concept of a small person in her brain to hopefully help a non-autistic reader gain insight into what is going on inside her mind, particularly around camouflaging and masking (it's hard to describe the idea clearly, sorry). I have been using Google Scholar to try and produce a female character who wasn't me but would still be diagnosed as autistic and the lack of research has been disappointing.

    I'm sorry I don't really have any helpful answers to your questions in terms of things that already exist or definite ways to improve things, I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone in your frustration and desire to make things better and I am trying to make a difference in my own small way :)

  • Hi,

    thank you so much for your reply! I think your book sounds like an amazing idea and please do let me know if you need any help from someone else’s experience too!! I’d love to read it once you’re finished and I think it would be a great help to a lot of people :) 

    it’s good to know I’m not alone with my frustration about the research, even though I wish that wasn’t the case Disappointed

    good luck x

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  • Hi,

    thank you so much for your reply! I think your book sounds like an amazing idea and please do let me know if you need any help from someone else’s experience too!! I’d love to read it once you’re finished and I think it would be a great help to a lot of people :) 

    it’s good to know I’m not alone with my frustration about the research, even though I wish that wasn’t the case Disappointed

    good luck x

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