Hi all im looking for some advice and support. My son is 20 years old and was diagnosed as being on the autistic spectrum at the age of 10. He recieved a bit of help from Cahms when he was younger but really hasnt found the right people to talk to. He struggled with communicating and making friends and was bullied through school. Over the past 3 years hes lost both his grandparents which i know has hit him hard. He is very antisocial because people have treated him bad throughout his life and he pretty much lives in his room, on his xbox. Since leaving school hes been to college and is now just finishing a apprenticeship but he still has no social circle other than online. He doesnt know how to budget and wastes his money the minute he has it on xbox games and ive been very frustrated with him, yesterday we had a talk and hes finally opened up and told me he is sad, lonely and depressed and hates life. Everywhere he goes noone accepts him, hes either used or picked on by people and now trusts noone. All i want for him is to be happy, find a group of friends who actually like him so he can have a social life but he never finds the right people. Some of the things he said yesterday scare me, he is so unhappy and says his xbox is all he has. What can i do to help him? Because he is 20 it hard to find the right services. Because his diagnosis is mild he gets no help from anywhere and i feel stuck. Please can anyone help?