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Are people bored?

mouse2

I'm at super high anxiety form other people right now. We've had antisocial behaviour from people or peoples children who dont even live in our road. Current affairs and everything going on I'm thinking suicidal thoughts and cant take any more. 

I use my social media to connect with friends but deleted toxic people who were just there for a nose through my profile really. Deleted no explanation. 

There's a local thug who I've had brief interactions with in the past unfortunatly due to my trusting nature. Her friends are bullies also and I try to avoid them after they hammered on my door one time as their kids were rude to my child and I simply said go away from my house. It ended with me yelling at them (shaking but I did it)

Their the kind of people who have been a gang since school and theyve never worked, just had kids and kept their same high school bullying attitude. Anyway this womans tried adding me on Facebook I have no idea why, no interest in adding her but it's thrown up yet more anxiety. I want to know what she is upto but I have so much anxiety I cant handle it right now.

Advice, do I ask what she wants? PS I also deleted her new fella a few weeks ago as he's not a friend tbh and hes not so nice to me when I did see him. He would make me feel bad about myself by saying things like 'dont let people say your ugly' and i'd only said hello as I had to so it would come out of the blue!

He is rumoured to be on meth so that explains his other strange behaviour. Another reason I deleted him. I'm trying to heal as I've been feeling suicidal I cant cope too well and I'm trying so darn hard to manage. 

Help please, my minds so messed up atm but I will also worry what she is upto. Are people that bored their creating drama's?

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  • Hi, mouse2. I'm really sorry to hear you're struggling and feeling suicidal - please talk to someone. The Samaritans are a good place to start.

    The way I see it, it's best to ignore requests from people who'll only add to your anxiety levels. If you're not comfortable with them in real life, it's best to avoid them on social media too. I've had to delete people in the past when their toxic posts become too much for me. I know it's easier said than done, but try not to overthink her reasons for sending you a friend request - some people will just add anyone they recognise, and others are just nosy (e.g. they want the occasional sneak peek into your life, but don't want to establish or maintain a friendship). 

    The most important thing is to protect your mental health - if these people might have a negative impact on you, it's best to keep them off your social media.

  • in reply to DuckBread

    Thank you duck bread. It's nice to hear from you again. For some people we only have an online world. Especially when we've had so many experiences in the past with awful human beings. The world is a strange place, especially right now. Most people are showing their true nature and it's not pretty.

    She never messaged me so that's a bonus. And I can still sell on my pages as I'm not at work currently so again bonus. If only I could block people in real life as I do online lol. Life could be so much easier

  • in reply to mouse2

    The world is a very strange place - I've not enjoyed seeing some people's true nature over the last few weeks.

    It's good that she never messaged you. Haha, it would be easier if we could block in real life Slight smile

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