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Are people bored?

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I'm at super high anxiety form other people right now. We've had antisocial behaviour from people or peoples children who dont even live in our road. Current affairs and everything going on I'm thinking suicidal thoughts and cant take any more. 

I use my social media to connect with friends but deleted toxic people who were just there for a nose through my profile really. Deleted no explanation. 

There's a local thug who I've had brief interactions with in the past unfortunatly due to my trusting nature. Her friends are bullies also and I try to avoid them after they hammered on my door one time as their kids were rude to my child and I simply said go away from my house. It ended with me yelling at them (shaking but I did it)

Their the kind of people who have been a gang since school and theyve never worked, just had kids and kept their same high school bullying attitude. Anyway this womans tried adding me on Facebook I have no idea why, no interest in adding her but it's thrown up yet more anxiety. I want to know what she is upto but I have so much anxiety I cant handle it right now.

Advice, do I ask what she wants? PS I also deleted her new fella a few weeks ago as he's not a friend tbh and hes not so nice to me when I did see him. He would make me feel bad about myself by saying things like 'dont let people say your ugly' and i'd only said hello as I had to so it would come out of the blue!

He is rumoured to be on meth so that explains his other strange behaviour. Another reason I deleted him. I'm trying to heal as I've been feeling suicidal I cant cope too well and I'm trying so darn hard to manage. 

Help please, my minds so messed up atm but I will also worry what she is upto. Are people that bored their creating drama's?

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  • You have the right not to accept a request for friendship on Facebook. You decide. 

    Some people are so pathologically social that they would send it automatically out to all friends of friends...

    I hope you can still find a quite spot in your home. I also don't like it much when there's too much noise in the gardens of the neighbours, but then I also don't mind staying in. 

    My brother in law had this weird way of talking to me... 'I spoke to a guy, he's at least as clever as you are'... I broke contact with him, so happy about that.

    Easier said than done, if you're having these thoughts of not wanting to live, better go see a doctor. I did, I talk to a psychologist once a week and I take anti-depressants. And I'm doing rather fine. If I look back now at things that used to get under my nerves then, and I laugh at now, it's amazing. 

    If your mind is chaotic, don't try to take on more than you can handle. Make sure the important stuff is controlled. 

  • in reply to MDC

    Thanks. I dont want more tablets that's all the drs do. Counsellors never understood how I thought so I gave up after starting a new with the 6th person.

    My husbands off work still. Our kids at home. I go to the garden to read, I'm reading war and peace at the moment. Yet I go in the garden and lay so no one can see me unless they really try to peer in. Today an old guy who i avoid as he has a weird thing for me and a history in the neighbourhood tried talking to me....i went in. Then another neighbour i like tried chatting about fences. Then another neighbour chatted about weeds and the council. I just want peace. I tried ignoring people and wearing headphones but social Distancing missed our town as they simply come close!

  • in reply to aidie

    My theory is they live in constant fear that if somebody crosses them on the street and doesn't acknowledge their existence, they might as well not be there. Schrodinger's cat people... 

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