Hello again, my confusion
My opinion is invald, do as she says, she is always right.
Even if she's wrong, don't point it out as this undermines her and I'm not supporting her, especially if she is telling me i'm wrong.
How did I create this dynamic, I get I worked a lot , I didn't invest in the relationship, I didn't make he feel loved and special.
I thought I was doing the right thing work hard young so we could have just one person working and one primarily looking after kids.
Opps I didnt invest in the relationship so obvious now.
But now the dynamic is I forgot to bring out the kiddies bag with nappies etc in, I got the drinks I got the kids toy that was lost in the house, she got the kids dressed
as always they go to mum, unless its just me taking kids out.
I get it that when its just me I get everything ready.
But when wife is invloved I step back instead of stepping up, I tune out switch off adding more mental load to her.
I need to step up and switch on
Thanks for listening
