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Cranky

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Anyone else's tolerance of putting up with rubbish from people running very low? I find myself getting wound up and being even more blunt than usual with people.

I dont mean to but if they say something I think is stupid I'm telling them at the moment just as I lose my temper really then I feel bad. 

Is it me? Have i just changed personality? Is it that I've had a huge event every month since December 2019. The huge changes right now? 

I'm tired of it all to be honest. People are grating on me

  • To be honest I gave up filtering my bluntness a long long time ago, either people are ok dealing with me being honest or they talk to someone else. I don't know if this helps but I've had a much easier time and been happier, albeit with less 'friends', since.

  • in reply to Mytwenty

    I'll try and stay in as long as possible :)

  • in reply to mouse2

    Yeah, well done for making it through that ordeal! :) I thankfully don't have to do the shopping in our house..

  • in reply to Mytwenty

    Sorry to hear that. I understand where your from. I have people I've known for years in police, nursing, hca. Yet 1 person in the streets been a hca since end of January and she knows more than doctors lol

    Fed up with everyone listening to her.

    I tried shopping today as I should be safe not to pass it on now. Wow its crazy out there. Most of the queue is coughing. The queue was so long but I endured it. I get in store and considering everything I ordered when sick was out of stock, the shop was fuller than I've ever seen before! What are morrisons keeping goods for? Sick people are in the shop as I'm guessing like me they cant get a delivery

    I started flapping and forgot my pin number after I'd only just used it then people got huffy and I was flapping again. I didnt notice until the lady said are u okay. I had to text my husband for the number as my brain was going into shutdown. I felt silly after. I hate shopping but to spend 5 hours going to 2 shops is a nightmare

    Glad I'm home :)

  • Kind of - I'm fed up of people treating me like rubbish. The next time something happens, I will react to it on the spot versus formulate something to say after the event.

    What happened last year to me was that someone had fallen over and I went to help them up with a couple of other people. I asked if she was OK and advised her to see someone if she felt unwell later, and then she blurted out, 'are you a fully trained nurse?' to which I said 'no, but my mum is', and then she said, 'I am'. Well excuse me for giving a **** about your wellbeing! 

    I think, as you said, you've had huge events happening to you lately, so maybe it's your circumstances and not you changing personality that have lowered your threshold, or at least, you'll be able to tell if it's your circumstances for sure when all of what you're going through has passed and things are back to normal