My 31 year old son has just been told by his psychiatrist that he has ASD, but he still needs an official diagnosis. He came back to live with us 4 months ago with his girlfriend ,when work became overwhelming and he was in a bad place, self harming and thoughts of suicide. He is incredibly clever but interacting with people is a major anxiety for him. He resigned from his job which was a climbing instructor and route setter and is doing an accountancy course with the hope that he can find a job where he doesn't have to interact with people too much. His old employers wanted him to come back but his old job as head route setter has been given to someone else, he is finding it hard to accept this. The last few days he has been in turmoil and that's the way it always with with any decisions. I don't know how to help him and unfortunately have developed anxiety problems myself. Do any parents have any advice? I just want to hug him but that's a no no.
Hello. I'm an Autistic mum to an Autistic teen. Speaking for myself if I was your son. I would need time out of the situation, throw myself into my special interest until I'm calmer. I also take ages to think about situations so time out if I can is always welcome. The employer obviously thinks alot of him to ask him back. Could he contact them and ask for a less people orientated role? All the best