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Hi, Roswell. I'm so sorry you're struggling. 

I don't know if you've ever tried contacting the NAS Helpline (sorry if we've discussed that in previous threads - my memory is terrible sometimes), but it might be worth a try to get some general advice on your situation. I noticed that the NAS also runs some local groups, which might be a good way to meet other autistic people who could have similar experiences: https://www.autism.org.uk/services/community/group.aspx

I really hope things improve for you soon. I don't know how much help I can be, but I'll offer suggestions wherever I can.

Well I'm trying a post-diagnostic support group for Autistic/Asperger's people which is starting this month so there's potential I could meet a friend or two there. I hope I can cope with it. In the past, I've struggled at such things. I'm thinking I need to be a bit more able to handle rejection and stick up for myself, as even in Autistic groups I've at times been judged by others for having a more posh accent or a different dress style.

Well I'm trying a post-diagnostic support group for Autistic/Asperger's people which is starting this month so there's potential I could meet a friend or two there. I hope I can cope with it. In the past, I've struggled at such things. I'm thinking I need to be a bit more able to handle rejection and stick up for myself, as even in Autistic groups I've at times been judged by others for having a more posh accent or a different dress style.

I really hope that the post-diagnostic support group goes well for you. Just be yourself. All of us autistics are such a glorious medley of often completely contradictory personality characteristics. But that is what makes us so unique

That sounds like a good thing to try. I hope the group goes well and that you meet some supportive people.

Meeting new people is tough, but it's definitely worth a shot.