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I have met someone online and I feel there is a connection on both sides, when I mentioned meeting up (we are only a few miles apart) she was a bit distant about it, saying she wasn’t good with crowds so I said we could do something where it’s just the 2 of us. She finally confided in me that she is autistic and it hasn’t changed how I feel at all and I told her that I would wait as long as it takes for her to be comfortable for us to meet. 
We message all day everyday basically and things are going so well, I just would like to know if there’s anything else I can do to help make her feel at ease? 

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  • It's good that you're focused on helping her feel more comfortable. I met my partner online and we took our relationship pretty slowly compared to most people, but it really helped me to build trust and feel comfortable with him. It's difficult because crowded places can be tricky, but it's best to meet somewhere public for safety. My partner and I met for coffee, as it's pretty informal but a safe, public place. Maybe you could find a quiet cafe where she won't have to worry about crowds? Either way, let her come around in her own time and don't worry if you need to take things slower than usual.

  • in reply to DuckBread

    I am willing to take as much time as she needs, I’ve told her this and she is thankful for it. This time of year is a stress anyway so it will probably not be until the new year but we’re getting along so well talking everyday so I’m happy to go slow 

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