Private assessment- first stage

just wondering if anyone has self referred privately  and after the initial face to face chat the psychologist says you make eye contact, you understand love and anger, you have friends and you completed school so it’s just anxiety and I wouldn’t recommend paying for the full assessment (in brief thats what I understood she meant!)

i get that autism and anxiety are closely linked but this just explained so much and now I feel totally lost again. We didn’t discuss any of my current struggles, she just asked questions on childhood through to teens and I had no answers for developmental stages as I didn't know.

i know the online aq tests are just a guide but is it possible just to have anxiety snd still score highly on these?

any help appreciated! Feeling lost.