Discrimination at work

Hi, 

I have been working with the company (a nursery) for over 8 years now and I absolutely love my job. I have high functioning autism, I wasn’t diagnosed until my early 20’s and it effects very little of my day to day life at work as work is a role, I can do that. (It’s hard to explain). Anyways throughout my career I have had to prove myself and work harder than anyone else (partly because I suffered from depression and anxiety early on in my career but I haven’t suffered from this for about 6 years). It took me longer to get a senior position and I was told that they had pushed me harder than anyone else because they needed to see that I would not break and could handle it. I didn’t think this was overly fair but I accepted it. Well I have been working towards a management position for the past two/three years but recently was told that I will never get the position because they do not think that I can handle the tricky situations with team/ parents etc. I do not believe this to be true. They said they have given me opportunities to show this but I deal with staff and parents all the time and have never had a problem. How can they know I cannot do the position if they will not let me try it? I would even be happy to do a trial basis to prove myself. I feel like I am being discriminated against but don’t know what to do? Any help and support would be very much appreciated. 

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  • I've had similar. I worked in a well known budget supermarket (not lidl) I had a small child but theyd get me working 12 hour shifts 4 to 5 days a week. I was in my early 20s and struggled saying no. They promised promotion to assistant mmanager so my workload as deputy manager increased. I even worked night shifts for 7 nights and my son went to his grandparents which I wasent happy about but I couldnt say no back then. They basically used me as the job they shook hands on they gave away after I'd worked all the hours for them the hours no one wanted. The job I was promised I was told I couldnt handle yet I'd excelled at.  I'm still traumatised by the events back then as that's a quick summary not the horrific details. I believe they had no intention of promoting me. Just used me

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  • I've had similar. I worked in a well known budget supermarket (not lidl) I had a small child but theyd get me working 12 hour shifts 4 to 5 days a week. I was in my early 20s and struggled saying no. They promised promotion to assistant mmanager so my workload as deputy manager increased. I even worked night shifts for 7 nights and my son went to his grandparents which I wasent happy about but I couldnt say no back then. They basically used me as the job they shook hands on they gave away after I'd worked all the hours for them the hours no one wanted. The job I was promised I was told I couldnt handle yet I'd excelled at.  I'm still traumatised by the events back then as that's a quick summary not the horrific details. I believe they had no intention of promoting me. Just used me

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