Hello.
Am posting really looking for advise, I have a lot of trubble with people I have trubble reading them there moods ect and I find it hard to keep on top of what there saying I feel like there talking at me rather than to me, I have two really overwelming feelings one is my mind wandering and wishing that they would get to the point kinda just give me the infomation and go away so I can do what am doing ( i know that sounds really bad) and / or a noise happens or theres other people about all making noise and I just wanna yell shut up am trying to lison to this person and I know I can't do that from experance :S. people also intimadate me when they talk, alot of arm waving and I end up looking at that or they seems to wisper or yell at me I have issues with tone of voice ( is this normal? ) people just scare me so I hide away. I just can't deal. so I end up self isolating putting headphones on. as much as I like the Isolation I know thats bad.
I just don't know how to brake this. people are like this big bag of angry cats everytime I wanna try putting my hand in to pet one am scard of getting scrached.
How do you cope ?