Hello
I have a 24 year old son who was diagnosed with Semantic Pragmatic language disorder as a child (goodness knows what it's called now).
We are going to apply for PIP but i confess i'm nervous. He received DLA in the past but im ashamed to say we didnt keep this up. He's overcome a lot (with support both at home and school) and I suppose we'd hoped he'd be in work and more independent by now. It's obvious this wont be the case. He worked for my husband after leaving school and coped well under supervision but he needs a way forward now (we all do actually as we're not getting any younger)
As there was a gap in receiving benefit, will that go against him?
What evidence will he need to produce?
He presents quite well to others but we still need to tell him when to wash, clean clothes, take meds, any self care really. I can't see him ever being independent without support as he'd never pay a bill. He can travel alone on regular journeys but only after he's been accompanied the 1st time. An unexpected incident (like a bus breakdown) could mean ill advised decisions.
Im sure youre familiar with this scenario. I think i just need some assurance. He's been to local job centre who have been helping him with CV etc. but theyve also suggested he apply for PIP.
I should add that his mental well being has been a concern in the past, most particularly when his sister went to uni. The impact this had on his own self worth was heartbreaking and worrying and prompted us getting him onto a local college course which has helped enormously.
Thank you in advance for your patience and help.
