Full Assessment - will not having anyone historic to bring be a big problem?

Hello,

I have got my letter through for my full assessment. It has been broken up into 3 stages. the second stage is described as "This appointment will involve one of our clinicians meeting or calling one of your parents or someone who has known you since you were a child."

I was not brought up by my parents. I have not kept in touch with anyone from my childhood. I have not kept any reports (or anything) from my childhood. 

I am now worried that when they realise this they will cancel my assessment or at the end of it state they cannot complete the assessment. I did state in the pre assessment that I had no-one I could bring, however it seems for the full assessment this takes a more central part of the process.

Has anyone else had this issue and would be willing to share experience or information as to how big an issue this is?

thankyou

Parents
  • I'd suggest responding to the letter and reiterating that you aren't in contact with anyone from your childhood and have not kept records from that period.

    A 'good' assessor - i.e. one who is familiar with assessing adults will be familiar with the situation where there may be no-one who can provide information relating to you in childhood and equally no pertinent records.

    I don't know myself how they will handle this, but they may simply ask you directly about your childhood - I didn't have any of the old school reports my psychologist was keen to see and my parents weren't always a big help...

    "You seemed normal to us..."

    "You were our first child so..."

    "No-one knew to look out for signs of autism when we had you..."

    etc.

    This didn't stop me being diagnosed as being autistic, despite being 'low needs / high-functioning' (I don't know what the correct replacement for 'Asperger Syndrome' is now...) and having 40+ years of 'masking' experience that in theory could have hidden the more obvious traits from someone who was just carrying out a 'tick box' exercise...

    Best of luck.

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  • I'd suggest responding to the letter and reiterating that you aren't in contact with anyone from your childhood and have not kept records from that period.

    A 'good' assessor - i.e. one who is familiar with assessing adults will be familiar with the situation where there may be no-one who can provide information relating to you in childhood and equally no pertinent records.

    I don't know myself how they will handle this, but they may simply ask you directly about your childhood - I didn't have any of the old school reports my psychologist was keen to see and my parents weren't always a big help...

    "You seemed normal to us..."

    "You were our first child so..."

    "No-one knew to look out for signs of autism when we had you..."

    etc.

    This didn't stop me being diagnosed as being autistic, despite being 'low needs / high-functioning' (I don't know what the correct replacement for 'Asperger Syndrome' is now...) and having 40+ years of 'masking' experience that in theory could have hidden the more obvious traits from someone who was just carrying out a 'tick box' exercise...

    Best of luck.

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