Finally have assessment appointments-really nervous

One in 10 days time (blimey!) and one a week later. Have a questionnaire with lots of vague open ended questions to fill in and send back; I think I'm going to have to sit down and make some preparatory notes before I fill it in so I don't miss out details (and either write really small or consider adding some extra sheets, there's not a lot of space for answers).

Struggling a bit with a question on 'why now to get assessed?' There's so many different intertwined things, and mostly I think it just didn't occur to me that my problem might be that I was on the spectrum (the basics I knew about it didn't sound like me...it was only because I came across an article about women who'd been diagnosed in later life that I had a lightbulb moment).

Relieved to finally get an appointment (been a 9 month wait) but feeling rather more nervous than I thought I would (getting jitters just thinking about it, no idea how I'm going to get any work done between now and the first appointment).  Maybe that's not a bad thing, can't mask when I'm anxious (probably why I fail interviews so often!) I am more worried about not getting a diagnosis than anything. I'm 99% sure I'm on the spectrum, and I really need the support at uni...also I imagine I'll feel a bit stupid having to tell other people the outcome if it is a 'no'...

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  • It's one of those occasions where the advice of "just be you" is as valuable as it's ever going to get. The assessor will hopefully see you, and look past the mask (or what's left of it when you're nervous anyway). And "because I really need the support at uni" sounds like a very valid answer as to why you want to get assessed now!

    Best of luck, and I hope you get some answers

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  • It's one of those occasions where the advice of "just be you" is as valuable as it's ever going to get. The assessor will hopefully see you, and look past the mask (or what's left of it when you're nervous anyway). And "because I really need the support at uni" sounds like a very valid answer as to why you want to get assessed now!

    Best of luck, and I hope you get some answers

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