There's one professional woman I see for help and at the last meeting she said she liked my hat, that it added mystery to my appearance, and complimented my coat and asked where I got it from. There was another time we were on the phone and she mentioned how I wasn't doing so well lately but at the end of last year I had a spring in my step and said that I was looking good too. Also every time we have met she at some point during the meeting starts curling her hair around while we're talking.
Would you say she was flirting?
You're like me in that I don't recognise the signs. I've missed a lot of opportunities in the past.
Do you think you might respond? When you say she's a professional you see for help, do you mean like a therapist? I only ask because there would obviously be an issue with boundaries.
She's a mental health nurse so yeah I think there would be boundaries. Just wondered why she's doing it really, if she is flirting.
Martian Tom said:I've missed a lot of opportunities in the past.
With the benefit of hindsight I think I've done that several times as well, and good opportunities too.