"We are all some where on the autistic spectrum" (does anyone else hate this comment)

"We are all some where on the autistic spectrum" I have been told this comment by so many neuro typicals it really angers me, it belittles the day to day difficulties people with autism face. I read in some research that you either have a neuro typical brain or an autistic brain, it's impossible to be a little bit autistic....so why do people still believe that everyone is on the spectrum.... Where did this comment come from in the first place? A friend told me she was taught it at university 10 years ago, why is it being taught when it's not even true?

Interested in hearing other people thoughts on this comment 

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  • I heard it for the first time years ago and I even thought that it might be true (maybe not for “all” but for “some”) thinking about myself and my family, that we’re somewhere on the spectrum, borderline autistic, not fully autistic, just a little bit. But then it turned out that we’re actually on the autistic side of this “border”.

    But in response to that question - I like “how does your autism affect you?” question 

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  • I heard it for the first time years ago and I even thought that it might be true (maybe not for “all” but for “some”) thinking about myself and my family, that we’re somewhere on the spectrum, borderline autistic, not fully autistic, just a little bit. But then it turned out that we’re actually on the autistic side of this “border”.

    But in response to that question - I like “how does your autism affect you?” question 

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