I apologise in advance for the length of this thread but I am at my wits end!!! 
 My 25 year old daughter was diagnosed aged 22 with autism Dyspraxia ADHD and anxiety. She is high functioning works drives has boyfriends 
 but is vulnerable and has since left an abusive relationship after 5 mths  and also has responsibility for her own finances which is where the major problems lie She is a compulsive spender and has got herself into so much debt including pay day loans and being conned d cohersed into being a guarantor for a so called,"friend" who has done a bunk and left her with the debt. Her total debt amounts to 14k14k as she has mental capacity (though not in finance we feel) I just don't know what to do. She buries her head in the sand until some major crisis happens lies to us then has a meltdown bec
se she has no money and starts to sekf harm and shout scream and get verbally abusive towards us dispute having bailed her out so many times our finances and savings are now suffering. She won't evejet us see bank statements open mail (there is a stack of in opened letters). We have only just been awarded 2 hrs support and we are waiting to appoint a support worker to her in the hope that she ll engage with them. Is there anything legal I can do re guarantor as she was told what to put on the form offered money to do it etc...... I am so angry frustrated desperate as her debt will surelympact on us as a family