Is discussing what it is like to be Autistic with Neurotypical people an exercise in futility?

Good Morning Everybody,

I have read all the threads posted recently with great interest, and one of the most consistent themes is the frustration and a lack of understanding of fundamental concepts of what it is like to be Autistic.

For context, I am forty-two and was diagnosed with an ASC a little of over a year ago, after an eight-year battle with so-called “experts”; and I have had a lifetime of Autistic related issues which went undiagnosed – my school reports are great inspirational comedy in hindsight.

Since receiving my diagnosis my experiences have been confusing at best and at times disgraceful and frankly insulting. I would be fascinated to hear people’s opinions, experiences and general feedback.

Thank you all for your time. 

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  • My favourite moment was when the Regional Manager gave me my polite reprimand over my meltdown.  He asked how long I'd worked in care.  When I said 13 years, he said 'Ah... well I've been in care twice as long as you and have never been afraid to ask for help.'  I couldn't help it.  I replied 'With respect... I've worked in care half as long as you with an autistic brain, and have never needed to ask for help before.' 

    Put that in your pipe and smoke it!

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