I'm lost - recently diagnosed

Hi there.

I'm a woman in her late 20s and got diagnosed with Childhood Autism a few weeks ago. Because of the diagnostic changes and things I'm just referring to it as ASD, which would have been my diagnosis this time next year? But I don't know if that's ok to do? Or who would decide whether it would be ok or not?

At first I felt like it was a huge weight off, it was validation for why I've always felt so different and confused. The initial feeling has worn off though, and I'm completely lost. I'm trying to keep doing my day to day life but I know I should change and get into a proper routine but I just want to sleep and shut everything out - my mood has been really down.

The internet is such a huge place. Can anyone tell me steps they started to go through upon getting diagnosed that they found helped? Also does anyone have any recommendations for coping strategies? I've bought loads of books on mindfulness to try and be proactive but now I feel overwhelmed and stressed whenever I pick them up because there's so much information and some of them I "logic" my way out of thinking through. Is there any mindfulness techniques people find help or anything?

I need any and all advice or recommendations on things that have worked for people. I live alone and am trying to go through each day as it comes, but my mood has been so rubbish. I feel like life is so much more hassle than it's worth and I'm constantly treading water.

I need a guidebook or steps to follow

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  • Just wanted to say welcome aboard. It is fairly quite here right now. So don’t worry that you may not get lots of replies, you will eventually.

    feel free to call your diagnosis whatever you choose to. Be yourself here, you will not be judged, everyone is a kind soul and overall we share so much although with varying degrees of similarities.

    We are one big family or tribe if you like.

     We all have good days and sadly bad days, the feelings you are experiencing are not uncommon to many of us. How to change that varies.

    Keep talking in here is one way, please join in on any topic which you feel happy to, don’t fret about spelling or wether something you say might be wrong,

    Please take care and be kind to yourself. Oh and may I offer you a virtual aspie hug. You do not have to accept it or even mention it! But it’s here and free because it makes me happy to know it might be enjoyed. () 

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  • Just wanted to say welcome aboard. It is fairly quite here right now. So don’t worry that you may not get lots of replies, you will eventually.

    feel free to call your diagnosis whatever you choose to. Be yourself here, you will not be judged, everyone is a kind soul and overall we share so much although with varying degrees of similarities.

    We are one big family or tribe if you like.

     We all have good days and sadly bad days, the feelings you are experiencing are not uncommon to many of us. How to change that varies.

    Keep talking in here is one way, please join in on any topic which you feel happy to, don’t fret about spelling or wether something you say might be wrong,

    Please take care and be kind to yourself. Oh and may I offer you a virtual aspie hug. You do not have to accept it or even mention it! But it’s here and free because it makes me happy to know it might be enjoyed. () 

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