Husband with IQ of 158

I don't know what to expect here. My husband is autistic, he was diagnosed in his early 20's before we met. He is now 35, he is a secondary school maths teacher.

I would like to find other people who have had similar experiences to him if possible. The difficulty he has is that he finds extremely complex maths and science (up to and including PHD level) easy but has no one to discuss these things with, as people we know and people he works with don't understand things on the same level as him.

He doesn't really have any of his own friends, but will tolerate some of mine sometimes. Generally he finds other people boring. But he also sometimes expresses feeling lonely or isolated. He finds social situations very stressful, and will avoid them where possible. Does this sound familiar to anyone?

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  • yeah, im currently studying maths for my astronomy degree and my brother nor my family do not understand what i say or talk about when discussing space sciences or maths related. they ask me a space question or maths question so i tell them the answer and they lose me mid-conversation, which is frustrating sometimes.

    it does kind of suck to have nobody to talk about science or maths when they do not understand you.

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  • yeah, im currently studying maths for my astronomy degree and my brother nor my family do not understand what i say or talk about when discussing space sciences or maths related. they ask me a space question or maths question so i tell them the answer and they lose me mid-conversation, which is frustrating sometimes.

    it does kind of suck to have nobody to talk about science or maths when they do not understand you.

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