I risk losing my job

I've been having problems at work since a change of management. To start with, the team I worked with has been cut down one by one to just me, while retaining the vast majority of the workload. Deadlines have been tightened and expectations have never been higher.

I also have to appease managers who are based in a head office in another city, while also meeting the needs of my colleagues in the site where I work on a day-to-day basis.

After an incident where management claim I had conducted myself inappropriately but my colleagues insist I had done nothing wrong, I have started to feel intimidated by the management, regardless of their intentions on any given day. While my colleagues could easily see I was on the spectrum, management refused to believe this was so without a formal diagnosis, which I have obtained towards the end of last year. 

After being given increasingly daunting tasks, failing to complete them in a "reasonable" time frame and being diagnosed with depression, my communication skills have been cited as where I fall short; skills a person on the autistic spectrum disorder such as myself typically has difficulty with, especially when they feel uncomfortable.

On top of this, my coping mechanisms have been deemed "inappropriate" by the branch manager, who has banned me from meeting with the people I trust, who for just 15 minutes a day, could encourage me to give my all to my work. Without them, I'm a crying, screaming mess in a store cupboard who has to come out only when required and put on a brave face so as not to upset people.

Due to my increasing failure to meet standards, I have been put on a capability review and I face losing my job.

I am currently looking for a new job, which I hope to get before I am inevitably fired, but I would be grateful for any advice.

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  • You are not alone.

    I also struggle at work.

    The job itself is easy for me but the environment is horrible and not autistic friendly.

    There are too much and too many noises and people moving around me.

    It is horrible to see how we the autistic people are treated

    I wish I could work from home part of the week.

    Have you looked at the self-employment option? I read that is the best way how to work. However, the problem is that the income can be unpredictable.

  • I've considered self employment, but as you say, with income being unpredictable, that's not good for me, as I have a wife and three children to feed as well as a mortgage to pay.

    As a backup plan I've started writing a series of books, but they're not selling very well because I don't know much about marketing. I asked a writing forum for advice, but due to misunderstandings some people started to become hostile. When I thought I'd brought misery to their forum, I decided to cleanse the website of my unwanted influence by deleting my own posts, but was then banned for doing so.

    I'm looking for a new job, but most places are asking for skills I haven't heard of even though I've been in the industry for over a decade.

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  • I've considered self employment, but as you say, with income being unpredictable, that's not good for me, as I have a wife and three children to feed as well as a mortgage to pay.

    As a backup plan I've started writing a series of books, but they're not selling very well because I don't know much about marketing. I asked a writing forum for advice, but due to misunderstandings some people started to become hostile. When I thought I'd brought misery to their forum, I decided to cleanse the website of my unwanted influence by deleting my own posts, but was then banned for doing so.

    I'm looking for a new job, but most places are asking for skills I haven't heard of even though I've been in the industry for over a decade.

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