finding it an obstacle to establishing friendships/relationships

I'm wanting my life to get better but I feel it's not getting much better and I'm not sure how to cope with the pressures and stresses of it.

I understand that life doesn't go in the way you want it to go sometimes and I just have to accept that life is an obstacle.

Having Asperger's has affected my social life in terms of establishing relationships with people.

I generally find establishing friendships to be a constant struggle and that I'm in a situation where I can't really rely on anyone and that I'm worried that I can't grow my independance and will still be living with my parents when I turn 40 (I'm 27). 

I joined a website called CitySocialiser where I attended a quiz night since last December which I enjoy going to. I went to two days out on museum trips, although I enjoyed going to see these wonderful places, I didn't really feel I connected or established friendships with anyone from those events. 

I'm attempting to address this problem of establishing relationships, I plan on still being a member of CitySocialiser and looking out for events where I can meet people with shared interests. I just recently became a member of MeetUp and planning to go to some events in the near future. I'm looking to take up

I just wondered if anyone has any suggestions on how to better my social life or things I should be doing more often to help my chances to better my life?

Joe

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