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Hi,

Have been a while since I posted here, having big problems at work and outside of it. I have been very angry about things at work, I don't know where to start. The biggest problems I have is complaints about my performance, I am consistently compared to 2 other members of our team (team of 4 in total). One of those I don't feel is fair because I don't feel he has the capability of doing the work I have done, the other one is literally this incredible person. I don't know how they work so fast, although I have been credited with the quality of my work in the past, recently not though. The meetings with my line manager are getting hostile and having a huge effect on me, which comes back in to my performance again. I have been through the changes at work, but I feel they have largely been igonred, the only thing that has improved is the reduction on the reliance of skype conversations.. One problem I have is that my skills are now outdated, so finding alternative employment is extremely dificult (or unlikely). We are moving to newer technologies imminently, so I am just trying to hang on to that. 

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  • Do your employers know about your AS?  I used to get complaints about the speed at which I worked - "I want more jobs doing less well."  I couldn't do "less well". There were other problems too in relationships with colleagues.  How are your relationships - do they criticise how you see things?  Are you thinking they might be looking for a reason to get rid of you?

    My friend that helps me including making phone calls didn't seem to understand why I wouldn't like Skye either.  To me it has the disadvantage of a phone call - unpredictable and too immediate - with additional distracting visual information.

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  • Do your employers know about your AS?  I used to get complaints about the speed at which I worked - "I want more jobs doing less well."  I couldn't do "less well". There were other problems too in relationships with colleagues.  How are your relationships - do they criticise how you see things?  Are you thinking they might be looking for a reason to get rid of you?

    My friend that helps me including making phone calls didn't seem to understand why I wouldn't like Skye either.  To me it has the disadvantage of a phone call - unpredictable and too immediate - with additional distracting visual information.

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