Looking for a flat, but have severe dog phobia and OCD issues

I am in the process of looking for a flat close to home, because my OCD and Aspergers puts stress on my family and I want to have an independent life, particularly as my parents grow old. I am on Band A for social housing , meaning that I am high priority due to my disability.

The problem is that I have a really severe phobia of dogs, have OCD about fires and living around others in a flat complex, and am worried about the social aspect of flat living. The dog phobia, however, is the main concern because most of the flats allow dogs, and even the ones that have a no pets policy in practice never enforce it, or so I have been told. I cannot be anywhere near most dogs without having a panic attack, the exception being Golden Retrievers.

 

The county council do have a limited supply of private, social rented bungalows, but they give priority to those in wheelchairs and the elderly, but a bungalow would completely meet my needs as I would have a private door. I believe the council does not understand mental health and invisible disability needs. What should I do? Have I a case for a bungalow? Should my needs be put behind a physically disabled person?

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  • Well, I looked round the flat today with the Housing Association people and the Floating Support Officer, and I have declined the flat. The reason for this decision is that one of the tenants, a man, is prone to aggressive behaviour, I felt anxious in the confined hallway (which stank of cigarette smoke), and dogs are allowed. I have now been told to only apply for flats with a private door, and I will be better supported to bid correctly, although why they did not properly understand my needs before surprises me. But it is better to make the correct decision. I will stay on Band A, and the hunt for a suitable flat continues...

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  • Well, I looked round the flat today with the Housing Association people and the Floating Support Officer, and I have declined the flat. The reason for this decision is that one of the tenants, a man, is prone to aggressive behaviour, I felt anxious in the confined hallway (which stank of cigarette smoke), and dogs are allowed. I have now been told to only apply for flats with a private door, and I will be better supported to bid correctly, although why they did not properly understand my needs before surprises me. But it is better to make the correct decision. I will stay on Band A, and the hunt for a suitable flat continues...

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