Published on 12, July, 2020
I'm wondering if anyone else has ever fantasied about there dream wedding day or any similar life events which they have yet to experience and waiting for the moment for it too happen, as lately been fantasying about my dream wedding but I'm single and no sign of my future bride to be in the near future.
My dream day would be a truely no conventional wedding following no traditions what so ever, i know for a austitic person that can be challenging but for me it a chance for me to experience everything new in one day and one of these experience would be me seeing what if feels like to be bride and wear the traditional bride outfit and all what the bride would experience e.t.c then rest of will be truely unique to fit my personaility.
Because wedding days are only time you could protential any of this special magic creating stuff so you might as well go all guns blazing.
I know i fantasy alot because of my condition trying to figure out what everyone purpose is on this planet by trying to step in to there shoes no matter the gender.
When I was a child my only ambition in life was to get married and have a child. During my teens, I would spend hours fantasising about my wedding, even though I had no boyfriend. There was one occasion when my mother thought I had completely lost the plot because I had drawn up a table plan of who would sit where at the wedding breakfast. Because I had no boyfriend, this table plan only consisted of my friends and relatives.
I would fantasise about my marriage and the kind of house that I might live in, what the garden might look like, etc. I was realistic enough to know that this marriage would not be perfect all of the time, so had factored in disagreements that myself and my future husband might have. This was something that none of my NT friends had ever done when fantasising about their own weddings and married life.
It sounds like you are thinking of the fairytale wedding and living happily ever after. There is nothing wrong with that Sparkling ( I am changing your name to Sparkle ok ? ) Its either that or ollie. Its your choice :-)
With our Autistic traits sometimes we can close our eyes and slowly drift away....