I've recently been diagnosed with autism aged 53.I feel some of my autistic traits have gotten stronger since diagnosis and also because I am not wokring and more able to express my authentic self it seems. My wife has responded negatively and seems to blame autism for some of our relationship challenges. She will only meaningfully engage with me through marital counsellor. I'm ok with that but feel it should be done with a lens mindful of autism. Any advice on best ways to gain such support?
