Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi there.
My name is Garry.
I am 37 years old.
I have just been diagnosed with autism, I am not sure what level, I am still in the process of taking it all in.
I can understand why I have struggled with work and social situations all my life. I feel doors are opening up for me in regards to help and support, with things like looking for the right job, help with organising my finances etc.
I guess I am keen to know that this diagnosis means for me. I have just heard at the age of 5 I was tested, my mum always felt like the doctors and medical professionals were trying to hide something from her.
This has been a journey over the last few years I have been on. I have self diagnosed for at least a few years, and now I officially know does it change anything?
I am also keen to make new friends, I put up barriers because I have been hurt so much in the past, but I am keen to build new relationships, hoping to have learn from the past, my faith helps, it is the biggest part of me. It gives me hope and comfort.
Stay safe everyone!
Hi Garry welcome to this forum of autistic adults and non-autistic carers/parents/partners
What did they say in your report like do you have any co morbid conditions with your autism ? eg OCD anxiety depression
Ha. I had to zoom in
life would B♭.
Music pun.
Hi Garry, congratulations and welcome to the tribe! Without music, life would B♭.
Hi Garry
Welcome to the forum.
Great to hear you're finding diagnosis a benefit to you.
It's probably going to take a while for it all to properly sink in - and you'll find yourself prepossessing all the events of your life through a new lens.
I was diagnosed in my early 40s - I had no idea I was different from other people- and also just *how* different I am.