Published on 12, July, 2020
Hello everyone my name is Rose and I am 58 years old. My hobbies are Twitter, gardening, classic cars, art, photography and spending time with my dog.
Recently I became very stressed when my beloved 12 year old dog was dying of heart disease and things were incredibly hard for me at work. Things have always been very challenging at work, I always end up in conflict with colleagues or managers, but as I get older it is more difficult to keep finding new jobs. This has finally led to me seeking an autism diagnosis after years of wondering if I am autistic.
I had my first meeting with a psychologist for my autism assessment last week. I was amazed at how much we talked about in that hour and a half. So many things from my childhood and adult life are starting to make sense. Lots of 'what ifs' and 'if onlys' started going through my mind but I am trying not to feel regret. I phoned my younger sister afterwards and she said she has thought for years that I am autistic (she thinks my Dad is autisitc too).
After my Norfolk Terrier died I realised that I could not cope without a dog as a best friend. A week later my husband and I adopted a Border Terrier who had been used for breeding and was not wanted now she cannot have any more puppies. She was very nervous when she first arrived but she is beginning to trust us (see photo below). I badly injured my ankle going on too many dog walks, so I am off work at present. In a way this is a good thing as it has removed me from a very stressful work situation. It has also given me time to think about the autism assessment process.
Finding this online community and reading some of the discussion threads has been incredibly helpful. It's wonderful to be among people who have had similar experiences.
Hi Rose Is that picture of a Morris traveler? I too am into classic cars and motorcycles
I also love dogs i do not have one but am friends with a lady who has and black (like Labrador) but 'all sorts'.
I like your comments at the bottom of your intro I have Asperger's and OCD struggle all the time now i am retired
God Bless
Kay jay (male Retired)
Lovely to meet you. The car is a 1962 Morris Minor. It's the third one I have owned! Getting to be a bit of a habit buying Moggy Minors... In my limited experience of friendship people with dogs make the best friends as we always have something in common. Good to know you have such a friend. All sorts dogs are wonderfully individual and often much healthier than pedigree breeds.
Sorry to hear you are struggling after retirement - I had to stop working for a time when my husband was ill and I know there are all sorts of challenges not being at work. I also have a bit of insight into struggles associated with OCD through one of my former partners.
What sort of classic cars and motorcycles do you like? As a baby I travelled in a homemade sidecar attached to my dad's Norton motorcycle. Can't remember much about that but I have very fond memories of our first family car (a wonderful Morris Traveller!).
Thank you so much for your lovely message.
God Bless you too.
Hi There
I have over 1000 models of cars, trucks, buses, trains etc in my very small oap sheltered accommodation, but my brother has over 50 vintage bikes, i have had many and put some in museums along with several musical instruments as i now no longer have space or the time to play with them all. i have about 12 dioramas of boats, planes, canal locks and boats and a train layout. i have just made 10 guitars, about 10 inches long on my wall, i also have a bedroom full of guitars on the wall. speak soon thanks for your reply.
Must watch Big Bang Theory - have never done so. Will look out for Sheldon. My husband is a lovely man who needs his own space too which is a blessing for me. We both enjoy the car stuff as a common interest. As a child my dad taught me lots of useful skills - mixing cement, mending cars, building Lego and Meccano. Used to love going with him to the hardware shop & garage. He would also take me to visit Mr Lucas who had a workshop where he did welding and other amazing things.I love the smell of dirty grease and Swarfega even now!! What fun you and your dad must have had together... lovely to have learnt so much from him. In those days I insisted on being called Jack because back in the 1960s girls were quite constrained by gender based expectations. I rebelled!
I watch them all, including Chasing Classic Cars with Wayne Corrine but i am also an avid fan of the Big Bank Theory - Sheldon is me! me! me! in so many ways. Your hubby seems to be the best. i got all i know from my dad, we had loads of stuff in the 40's right up till they died.
Thank you for this it's very interesting indeed. Do you ever watch the TV programme Wheeler Dealers where they do up and sell old classic cars? Some of them were recorded a few years ago and when we check online we find the cars they restored have been allowed to rot and are off the road again. It's a tragedy - an important part of motoring heritage is being lost because people won't spend money on 'boring' things like rustproofing and maintenance. My husband is joining in with this conversation now - he says Prescott is where MGs made their name in the 1920s. I am proud to be an anorak and to be married to one too!